Last time I blogged, I left you with a verse to memorize. It was:
“Be strong, do not fear;
your God will come,
he will come with vengeance;
with divine retribution
he will come to save you.” Isa 35:4
I hope you are claiming the Be strong and fear not part daily. I know I am. As I have been reflecting on this verse, another part really struck me. Our God will come…to save us! I love that idea of being saved. Not in a Savior way, but in a damsel way. Let’s see if I can explain.
For those of you who know me, you know that I live in a house full of boys, males, men!? Sometimes! My boys range in age from 46 to 10 – the latter being our West Highland Terrier, who, yes, is a male too! With all this testosterone around here it’s sometimes a little hard to get your inner princess needs met.
They love Gamecock baseball, action movies, lifting weights and lots of other real man stuff and while I have come to enjoy much of these things to, sometimes I just want to be a girl! You know the whole fairy tale thing-rags to riches-Cinderella, even the princess in Braveheart! As a guy you can’t understand this part of us, but if you could for just a minute try to “get it” you might be surprised at your rewards.
You see deep in all of us women is this little girl who really does love being beautiful. Dresses, make up, jewelry, and having our hair done by someone else…it’s just the little things we do because deep down we all really are that three-year old little girl who loves to have tea with her friends or her big strong daddy. Why? because deep down we want to see and feel those adoring eyes that are captivated by the things we say, the cookies we made or just because we are yours! Now I know you haven’t ever been a little girl, but if you have had a little girl or seen a little girl twirl in a dress and say, “Look at me!” You can “get it” just a little. We just want you to notice us and be blown away by us, what we do, what we don’t do… Every now and then a little statement of “Wow!” or “you are so good at ___” It helps us know you see us and adore us.
But what’s so cool about our God, ladies is that even when our husbands don’t get it, He does! Isaiah 35:4 says “He will come and save us.” He knows our inner hearts! He knows that we were made for romance, to be pursued and He wants us to join Him on His adventure so he can unveil our beauty.
But here’s the big “AhHa!” we have to recognize we need Him. Ask for His help to “save us.” I believe there are lots of us who don’t want to be needy or incompetent and what we do by being super woman is deprive our God and husbands from their roles in our lives. We stand in the way of fully experiencing the deep love and emotional relationship we could have because “we can do it!” “we got this!”
God gives us more of what we need emotionally when we are willing to “need” our husbands. We need to ask for help-around the house, with the kids, and emotionally. They don’t just “get it” and part of our princess role is to help them see practical ways they can be our white knight’s or warriors.
So how will you Be strong and Fear not today?
How will you allow God to come and save you?
Will you notice when your emotions go from 0 to 10 and identify the fear? or will you look for ways that you can be vulnerable with your husband so he can be your prince? My prayer is that in your weakness you will see our God is strong! I love you all and am so desperate for God to make me more like the princess Tonya He wants. I hope you will grow and learn with me as we do life together.
“Be _______, do not ______;
your _____ will come,
he will come with vengeance;
with divine retribution
he will come to ______ you.” Isa 35:4